White Girl Detox

I have a secret.

Before I was awakened and initiated in Black thought and consciousness, I was addicted to …white girls. I have been with women of every race, but my trysts with Japanese Korean, and Latinas was more out of novelty than anything else. But white girls werent just novelties for me…white girls were something else entirely. They were my weakness, my Achilles heel, my guilty pleasure. I guess you could say that I didn’t know better. I was a victim of the pathological subliminal self-hatred that most of us are subjected to and have been since we came to this country.

But as I said, I now know better.

The funny thing is, since I have come into this community, I have stood side by side with Black scholars who talk big ole ish about the value and importance of the Black woman. They espouse their love of natural sistas rockin natural hair. They eschewed mainstream hip hop, could quote Cheik and build with the best of the 5 Percenters. And then….then…..their rides pull up and whose in the driver seat?

A white girl.

Something is not quite right with the picture. Its kinda like that one clip…

Now this phenomenon of white girl addiction has always been epic in its proportions within the Black community. Malcolm X fell victim (of course, that was before he was Malcolm X, but still). Thurgood Marshall, the first African American to serve on the Supreme Court of the United States was married to one. King Kong was surrounded by beautiful black topless women, but he catches sight of one white woman and goes ape-shit, swimming across the Atlantic, climbing skyscrapers, unleashing hell to get at this white girl. Frederick Douglass was married to his white second wife until the day he died. (He dismissed the controversy surrounding the marriage saying his first marriage honored his mother’s race and his second honored his father’s…whatever the hell that means). Tiger fell victim. Michael Jackson, most black atheletes, on and on.

Im trying to make sense out of the whole thing. My “consciousness” tells me that there are a few rationalizations that the brothas make to explain their addiction:

“White girls are easier to deal with”
“Black women are angry/trifling/etc”
“White women are freakier than black women”
“White girls know how to treat a Black man”
“I cant find a sista who dont have three kids and a baby daddy gettin ready to get out of the Pen”

etc.

I want to point out that brothas who think the grass is greener on the other side are wrong. You get just as many problems with white women as you do with Black women. For instance, while Black women tend to resort to anger, white women resort to tears…and theres nothing worse than people seeing a Black man make a white woman cry in public. Im pretty sure in some parts of the South thats still a felony. White women arent any freakier than Black women either. Im not going to go into details, but some of the nastiest experiences I have had were with the Sistas. I will say that white women tend to be alot more passive. I think all of us who have dated white women have had this same scenario go down:

I was dating this girl one time and she was annoying the hell out of me one time when we were out for drinks with some friends. After a while it led to an argument, not really an argument, but it was me exploding because I had been drinking and I said, “Just go home, go the f*ck home, take my keys, go to my apartment and do not go to sleep until I get there.” Son…. She said, “OK.” She actually did that, and that let me know that you just can’t give men that type of power in a relationship, I had to get away from her. - from Single Black Male

So its not that white women “treat their men better” per se. Its just that they are more passive. They would rather agree with everything you have to say and want to do than create friction. A scene from Coming to America comes to mind

Now after months of meditating on the issue and running it past a few of my Accountability Group brothas and Tweeples (like @AsiaBrown @BlackGod917 and @WmWesterfield), I think I got the origins if this whole infatuation with white girls figured out. Feel free to correct me if you think Im wrong on any of these issues.

Media Influence: I remember this one track on UGKs old Underground Kingz album (this was before my Great Awakening, when I was still allowing garbage media to influence my psyche) where this cat named Pimpin Ken went on for like 2 straight minutes on the benefits of white hoes over Black Ones.Tyler Perry’s archetypal white (or high yellow) man coming in to save the miserable Black woman from her miserable Black man in all his movies dont help at all. You know what else doesnt help? These “problems with the Black community” news specials. They have the whole world (including Blacks in America and Africa) thinking that we Blacks in America are all poverty, illiteracy, and disenfranchisement. With this image in mind, interracial dating is more prevalent amongst Blacks in America than amongst any other race anywhere else…like we are trying to get away from ourselves and breed ourselves out of existence.

See, Black men and women dont value other Black men and women for the above reasons as well as a lack of knowledge of self and the value of ones blood heritage. As the Hon. Marcus Garvey once said, “If Blacks knew more of their glorious past, then they would be more inclined to respect themselves!” But since the grand majority have no knowledge of self, and we are all taught that “White is Right” (albeit subliminally), then we subconsciously value the white woman while simultaneously devaluing ourselves and our Black counterparts. Its an ugly situation.

If Black men understood the Afrocentric role of the woman as Queen and co-regent (as opposed to the white/Christian stance that the woman is the “weaker vessel” and subordinate to the man) then the Black woman would be valued for her strength, instead of scorned for it! Media, religion, and so called education are all means of indoctrinating Black men and women in racial self-hate!

With all that being said, I am proposing a White Girl Detox program (pay attention, @WmWesterfield!…lol, just kidding. Or am I?).

Step 1: The Eye Bounce – If you have found yourself eye-f*cking white girls without realizing it, as soon as you are conscious of what you are doing, bounce your eyes away. You cant help the first look, but you can help the looks after that. Besides, eye-f*cking evey female that you see is uncivilized and disgusting, and these looks at others don’t go unnoticed by other people.

Step 2: Notice the aesthetic beauty of Black women exclusively. Think about what you love about our women beyond the obvious and sexual. Black women have mannerisms and expressions that no other women on the planet can imitate.

Step 3: Meditate on the real reasons for your attraction (addiction?) to white women. More often than not, you arent going to like the real reasons that you find! You might come to realize that the real problem lies not with Black women, but with you (your conflict resolution skills, your lack of empathy, your poor leadership abilities). Improving yourself in any of these areas would be an improvement in your overall manhood and mental health!

Will these steps work? I dont know. But I have tried them and they have changed my whole perspective on my attraction!

-ASAD

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Chuck

As the article states, the dominance a White woman endures happily is intoxicating. What after that's done? I'm not against getting a White girl, but I do ask that you think of the ending before you commit yourself to one.
Mist

Most times the cycle goes this way: black women set their beliefs and expectations based on media (primarily white and stereotypical) projections of black men. This pours over into their daily relations with men on every level and extends to their family and relationship lives. They end up setting unrealistic expectations for men; must speak ebonics, not be too educated, be a roughead, can't be civilized, weight, wealth, height and all kinds of stupidity. Once a black man becomes successful, or gets past an age, he can't really keep up with a black woman's false reality, so you opt for the white woman who knows you went to school, so you should be eloquent, wants you for more than a dick size, not that anything's wrong with that, and knows you won't be like every other black man on tv. I wonder if that's why my grandfather went white.

This guy makes valid points: http://blogofthegentleman.blogspot.com/2010/08/70…
- http://twitter.com/BlackAmericaU Asad
  
  Hell, I have never been able to keep up with the unrealistic expectations of some Black women. Granted, this aint the majority, but there are a large percentage of our women who really need to check that ish.
- http://twitter.com/BlackAmericaU Asad
  
  Hell, I have never been able to keep up with the unrealistic expectations of some Black women. Granted, this aint the majority, but there are a large percentage of our women who really need to check that ish.
- http://twitter.com/BlackAmericaU Asad
  
  Hell, I have never been able to keep up with the unrealistic expectations of some Black women. Granted, this aint the majority, but there are a large percentage of our women who really need to check that ish.
- http://twitter.com/BlackAmericaU Asad
  
  Hell, I have never been able to keep up with the unrealistic expectations of some Black women. Granted, this aint the majority, but there are a large percentage of our women who really need to check that ish.
Monty

Okay there was a lot of dribble in this post, but it easily comes down to this: White women are more physically attractive than Black women, and that is why Black men are flocking to them. No wonder most rich Black men when given the chance will date a White woman over a Black woman.
- jai
  
  and thats it in a nutshell. It has nothing to do with whats "wrong" with Black women. those are just bogus excuses because of the guilt a Black man feels for preferring a white woman.
- http://www.facebook.com/donelle.dumpkins Donelle Dumpkins
  
  That’s your warped, self hating opinion. That is not necessarily true, however what is true is that black men would scrape the bottom of the barrel and choose the most horse faced white woman and lord her over the black woman. So that is your opinion and yours alone brother.
Jay Rob

Lmao @ Step 1 of the "White Girl Detox".
Tia

Wow, ic this is what most as men think of as women from these comments, what do you think of yourselves?

As to the author great post,satirical and I enjoyed. overall I just think he's saying examine your reasons for attraction to white women in a white dominated society. I have no prob with brothers dating we ( as if it mattered if I did) but ur reasons for being into WW should have nothing to do with black women. It should be about that particular lady in ur life, not what is so wrong with us.. I'm just sayin!
Tia

what can i say, after reading the comments box, alot of you guys seem really bitter! i mean really, but the thing is, why are we all lumped together, and i also wonder about black men who are with white women presently, why do you sstill come back to this issue and criticize us after you have a white woman? what does it matter at that point

to the author, loved loved the post, i got a laugh out of it and a dose of reality too. very well written and expressed, i don't think he is saying interracial relationshps are wrong guys, just he is saying, examine your reasons for being so into white women.

because yes, some black men are fixated on them.

some of that may stem from other issues such as indoctrination in a white dominated society, how many of us can say we truly escape all of it? I have no problem with it personally, but, i just hate to see the black community divided by the "gender war" and to some extent interracial propaganda.

guys if ur into a woman, your statements should be about "her", and not , you know i deal with x or y women because Black women are so terrible. i mean really, alot of you seem like you wouldn't even want to be buried next a black woman! we have some bad apples like anyone, but we are at the end of the day human and not all of are as some of u describe.just as not all of you are as some people describe.

In the end i still have hopes to end up with a great black man who is kind, funny, intelligent , humble and yes a bit of a nerd( my weakness) I know all of us are not caught up in this crazy gender war.
Yonah EL

Thank you Tia. Many of us are confused for a lot of reasons. It only matters in so much as we take notice of it and factor it into how we govern ourselves with relationship to that special someone. Many of us fail in relationships that have nothing to do whatsoever with race and more to do with our own inadequacies, or erroneous concepts of the opposite sex.

In my case, for years, I was so into the religious thing…My wife wanted the religion as she saw it, but did not want to accept what the word was actually saying. It was my position that you either take it all, or leave it alone. But you certainly can't take the parts you like and discard the ones you don't.

And women are the same way, so are men. You have to take the whole person. You can't take the aspects you like and disregard the ones you don't. You can try, but it makes for one hell of a rocky road.

Our problems as related to WW stems from the egg shells we walk on to make that relationship work, where as when we deal with a sister, or brother, we think it should all be hunky dorey and we don't take the time and care to be as sensitive as we should be….

I wish everyone…. love… with the right person.
DeAngelo Colbert

When speaking on white women and black men there are some other aspects that could factor in. Let me start off by addressing the fact that many black women raise kids on their own. This is a crippling problem when it comes to the black man/women relationship. Say if the mother and father have bad blood between the two. In some cases the mother will pass that resent from father to son. This could explain the reasoning of black men like white women because they are passive. Usually guys look for women like their mothers ,but if your mother was hard to get along with you probably look for something different or the opposite. So being that the black women is strong minded the opposite would be a passive white women. Now on the other hand take the single black mom that has no resent towards her son, and raises him right. At some point that mother will have to lay down the law. This can be a tricky task because It can turn the child against the mother being that the mother has to play both the good guy and the bad guy. So really I think what's happening is by the black man not being around to help raise their kids (mainly sons) it gets the son to think mom is the bad guy because apparently she was so difficult to deal with dad left ( and note this is what most black adolescent young think about when their mothers are punishing them for something they kno they had to business doing) but since daddy ain't around to give out the punishment he is still loved by the kid/s and the single black mother is the tirant.
Yonah El

I just read a post from back on July 6 by Monty. He commented that white women are physically more beautiful than black women. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, so I will not deny that Monty feels that way. On the other hand, I think Monty should acknowledge that white women are marketed and promoted as being more beautiful. That is part and parcel of white values. I for one think that black women tit for tat far exceed white women in beauty, as well as other ways. They have endured all the hell that can be thrown at them and they still shine. Many of them are still somewhat maladjusted and prefer white hair to their own, but that is changing. As black women become ever more self aware, you see them sporting their natural curls and they are proud to do it. And as for me, I love them for it.Go black sisters, go. Do it for the honor.
http://www.nsm88.org/ ThorOdinson14

Thank you! People are supposed to be attracted to women of their own race.

My only problem now is that when I say all of the above, I'm considered "Hateful".

My link shows I obviously belong to a pro-White organization, but in all my posts here, have I been disrespectful? What's my incentive to be respectful if not that I'm keeping it real; it's not like anything I post could lead to a physical confrontation.

If I, a White male, see an inter-racial couple holding hands at the mall, and I say something, who am I perceived as "dissing", the Black person or the White person.

What is it about Black Man/White Woman? Why is this the predominate arrangement. I've not seen it the other way since The Jeffersons.
- Yonah El
  
  Thor, I think you are sadly mistaken. People are attracted to who they are attracted to. It has very little to do with race except in the context of being taboo. Many of either race find the other to see what all the hubbub is about. As for you dissing someone for being an interracial couple, I think you are dissing yourself for not respecting them for making a choice based on what they want and not what others tell them. I am not sure if you are a pro-white org because you chose to do so. I doubt it. I would venture to say that you were taught that in your early years and you honor your instructors by continuing in that vein. I think there is nothing wrong with being pro-white. I am pro-black, but I do not disrespect those who chose a interracial life. That is their choice. You made yours and I respect that. They made theirs and I think you should respect that as well.
D'Metri

First of all, there is not such thing as black thought. You show extreme ignorance by saying this. Secondly, I married a white woman. So should I just stop loving her because of your point of view. And I can assure you, she is NOT passive. Her heritage is German. Show me a passive German woman and I will show you a God-fearing Atheist. I am not pro-black, pro-white or pro any race. I am pro-humanity, pro-decency, pro-peace and pro-evolution of this planet. There is just too much to consider for this web site to be valid. Yes whites are promoted as being more beautiful and more intelligent but again, these are vagaries of perception not fact.

I will say this though, I am tired of seeing white people in movies 150 to 1 against other races. Just plain tired of it.
- Yonah El
  
  D'Metri. What makes you say that there is no such thing as black thought? How do you get the authority to make a statement for blacks. Considering that you have married a white woman, I can understand why you do not want to accept it, but trust me, it does exist. Maybe not for you….But.
  
  And Secondly, no matter what your personal feelings about this site. You cannot or rather do not have universal authority to state the validity, veracity, or efficacy of this site for the rest of us who freely choose to associate with and support this site and each other. And to show you how realistic we are, we will not deny you the opportunity to participate just because of your white wife. Neither will we expel you for disagreeing with us,, provided you adhere to the rules of decency and respect.
- http://unitedblackamerica.com Asad
  
  You show extreme ignorance within your first sentence. You have been fooled into abandoning your right mind and tying your thoughts and being with that of the system that seeks to destroy you, Blackness, Black history, and Black thought.
  
  And it is FACT that for decades (centuries) Black has been degraded as ugly, and light/white has been praised and valued. Where that not true, you wouldnt have Beyonce trying to lighten her skin in advertisements (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/17/beyonce-skin-ligthening-ad_n_1210377.html) Hers is just one of thousands of examples of how we have allowed ourselves to be brain and color washed.
  - D'Metri
    
    Yonah El on March 26, 2012 at 2:17 am
    
    D’Metri. What makes you say that there is no such thing as black thought?
    
    DJ: Thought is not Black or White. You are confused. If you happen to be right, how?
    
    How do you get the authority to make a statement for blacks.
    
    DJ: I do not get the authority. I have the authority to use my brain
    
    Considering that you have married a white woman, I can understand why you do not want to accept it, but trust me, it does exist. Maybe not for you….But.
    
    DJ: Regardless to whether I married a White woman, you are not a logical man to disseminate there is a difference in thinking. Thinking is thinking. The color makes no difference. I know people are programmed and need to detox in some areas. Nothing new to me.
    
    And Secondly, no matter what your personal feelings about this site. You cannot or rather do not have universal authority to state the validity, veracity, or efficacy of this site for the rest of us who freely choose to associate with and support this site and each other.
    
    DJ: This is not about feelings. You certainly are showing some. If you cannot argue for or against what you think, your logic is flawed. I will say whatever I want to say. Even if it hurts your "feelings". That is the problem. Too much feelings and not enough critical thought.
    
    And to show you how realistic we are, we will not deny you the opportunity to participate just because of your white wife. Neither will we expel you for disagreeing with us,, provided you adhere to the rules of decency and respect.
    
    DJ: I have done nothing but that. But if you feel threatened then so be it.
Kushite Prince

Great article!
- http://unitedblackamerica.com Asad
  
  I appreciate it, and glad to see your first comment on the board! I find it easier to interact with others in the comments section (instead of twitter or FB), so use this forum to keep the conversation going!
  - Kushite Prince
    
    Thanks I appreciate that. I do follow you on twitter as well. This is a very interesting topic. It's a big problem in our community. I live in Cali and I see brothers with white girls and other races all day. Even a few of my cousins are with white girls. I personally have never dated white women. But during school I had a few hit on me. I noticed that when it comes to black men,white women can be overly aggressive. When I was in college I my buddies and I would always get hit on by them. I think in college many white women want to sexually experiment with black men. They're told their whole life about how bad black men are and they should stay away from them. So they look at it as a way to be "sexually free".lol Many get offended when I tell them I'm not interested in them. They take it as a slap in the face. White women see themselves as the cream of the crop. So I black man should take it as a compliment that they would even flirt with us. They can't believe a black man would turn them down.I'm just more attracted to sistas.
    
    Here in Cali interracial couples are everywhere. Sometimes I get tired of seeing all these white women carrying their mixed race babies.lol I just saw a beautiful sistas at the supermarket with a white guy last week. I still cringe when I see that. Sistas are really getting with white boys out here. It's becoming an epidemic.I think we need to be nation building. And we can't do that if we're sleeping with our open enemy. Interracial marriage will not get rid of racism. Marrying white people only confuses black people. It makes you think they see us as equals. Which they do NOT. We shouldn't be admiring these black celebs that are not with marrying black people. Such as Cuba Gooding,Quincy Jones,OJ Simpson,Diana Ross,Tina Turner,Taye Diggs,Terrence Howard,Kobe Bryant,Charles Barkley,Sidney Poitier,Bryant Gumbel,Tiger Woods,Montel Williams etc. We need to be marrying our own women and building strong black families. All this interracial nonsense is not going to help us at all. Amerikkka will end up looking like Brazil. There will still be a color caste system. With the white looking people as the ruling class. The biracial(mixed) people in the middle as a buffer race. And the dark-skinned people living in the slums at the bottom. It wont change a damn thing in the end. It will be our undoing. Black people need to wake up to what's going on around them. Interracial dating is nothing but propaganda to divide our people up even more. Black unity and cohesiveness is a threat to white supremacy. I wish more black people could see this fact. Our very survival depends on it.
Kushite Prince

These are five negative effects on why black people shouldn't be sleeping with white folks at all.

1.It removes or reduces the suspicion that any white person who can practice racism does practice it. This reduced suspicion is then recommended to other non-white people with whom they talk—offspring, siblings, neighbors, co-workers, etc. ( During formal slavery, black people in this part of the world were clear about the fact that white people who pump us are not mutually exclusive from those who thump us. The fathers of many slaves were also their massuhs. )

2.It confuses the non-white person about the supremacy of racism. If the bed is a racism free-zone, the victim of racism starts to reason that maybe the skateboard park is, too! This confusion is then spread to other non-white people with whom they talk—offspring, siblings, neighbors, co-workers, etc.

3.It does not reinforce self-acceptance. Caressing the uniform of the enemy (the white supremacists) is likely to produce something similar to the Stockholm Syndrome.

4.It can produce offspring with more acute effects of 1-3. It is extremely difficult to convince himself/ herself that a white parent may have been mistreating him/her on the basis of color even though the white parent pushed him/her in a stroller and swing.

5.It compromises the non-white person’s will and/or ability to counter racism (white domination). At minimum, to avoid the disapproval of the white sexual partner, the non-white person will limit or stop his/her study and discussion about countering racism. More often than not, it produces victims of the system who become so confused that they act as “defense attorneys” for Racist Man and Racist Woman in court rooms, on camera, on social media, on the job, at the lunch table, etc.

Just my 2 cents.
http://www.comebyyuh.com Jamara Newell

Interesting article. I don't tend to like people culturally dissimilar from myself even if they are also Black, so white woman nor Hispanic woman never been my thing. Asian woman I find flat out ugly and never have paid them attention.
http://foolishmission.net/ J. Guthrie

Rather than get dragged into the whole knock-down, drag-out debate of “who we’re supposed to be with” and “who’s races women are better,” I’ll just say this:

I am a black man. Regardless, I’ve always stood for equality for all races, creeds, cultures, and sexual orientation. I believe love and equality are colour blind. I do not believe equality means pushing one race’s agenda ahead of everyone else’s; that is fascism, plain and simple.

What’s critical to me – and possibly to all human beings – is to love and be loved. With regards to intimate monogamous relationships, not everyone will get to experience such a wonderful bond between two people where everything is done with ample amounts of passion and the companionship is solid and cherished.

Therefore, why should I be castigated as having a “white girl problem” because I found this kind of beautiful bond in a white woman? If my lady was black, I’d still love her for who she is because of who she is, not because of what race she represents. I can confidently say the same vice versa.

I have one obligation to one race and that is the human one. The end.
- http://www.comebyyuh.com Afrofogey
  
  Lmao I never seen a post almost completely filled with platitudes before, good work sir, that is an accomplishment. Unfortunately you comment is an indictment on America’s educational system along with one on the general intelligence of your average person. I say that mainly due to the fascism mean putting one race above another. That isn’t fascism , fascism is a political philosophy composed of many things, some countries like Spain’ had no explicit programs., your thinking of Nazism which is a form of fascism not faciscism itself.
  - http://foolishmission.net/ J. Guthrie
    
    How… condescending of you.
    
    Fascism is a radical political ideology that aggressively pushes nationalist and generally intolerant views, which is why I made that association. Supremacy also comes to mind. The Nazis were facist, amongst other things but that’s beside the point.
    
    If you don’t like my sentiments that’s fine, but proceed with caution whey you try and cast them off as “cliché” or not genuine enough. If they are cliché to you that’s probably because you might have a problem looking for deeper meaning when the simple truth is staring you right in the face.
    
    But I digress… my comments are my own views and if you’re supposed to represent a higher intelligence quotient than mine, you’ve failed in my estimation.
    - http://www.comebyyuh.com Afrofogey
      
      No you tried to use fascism in order to demonize anyone who prefers their own race to anothers. In order to bring to mind nazi death camps and other barbaric practices. Of course racial and cultural supremacy exists under every form of government from democracy to communism, nationalism does too. Unfortunately as I said the education of the average person leads them to make terribly reductionist and ahistorical points on top of the various clichés they were taught. But to make it simple for you. Liking your own race best doesn’t mean you want to gas other races. No, preferering people marrying in their own race is not fascism or nazism that line of that preexisted both of them by 100′s of years, actually in America which was a Democratic Republic.
      No what you were saying were cliches, we are all humans, since we aren’t talking about aliens it isnt really a relevant point. It was a simple and way over used platitude to make yourself appear enlightened and high minded. Of course nothing is new or thoughtful about such thought, it is basic multiculturalism, we’ve all heard it and reject or accepted it. Maybe you should try giving it some critical thinking yourself.
      Anyway I have no reason to try to prove myself smarter or dumber than you. That’s not my concern, all I know is here you are out of your league.
      - http://foolishmission.net/ J. Guthrie
        
        Didn’t African tribes use barbaric practices when albino people started showing up? I think we’re being a bit selective here as far as historical accounts go but I’d rather not argue the semantics of my own analogy. My point still stands.
        
        You feel like I’m trying to make myself appear enlightened and high minded but I think you assume (or perhaps presume) far too much of me and my sentiments. As cliché as my sentiments may appear, it really is that simple. I could’ve said “I like what I like” or “I have no racial preference.” It’d all amount to the same thing, surely? You could’ve just disagreed with where I’m coming from and then expressed your own sentiments but you took the patronising route.
        
        When talking about certain races, surely it makes sense to use ‘human race’ to be all-inclusive as a manner of speaking. Multiculturalism is something I advocate because I don’t see the point in enforced segregation, be that via legislation on Capital Hill or through own personal choice. It’s not progressive enough for me and further re-enforces the deeply prejudiced beliefs of certain supremacists and fascists, influencing their need to commit acts that most would see as an atrocity.
        
        If you hadn’t any need to prove yourself my intellectual superior, you’d have taken an entirely different approach. It would appear my point about that stands also (see previous reply). So posturing and intellectual dick-swinging aside: what is the real point of your response to my clichéd beliefs?
      - http://www.comebyyuh.com Afrofogey
        
        selective, we are talking governments, not peoples as fascism is a form of government lol. See what I mean about trying too hard? In any event I didnt have to mention ever gov in history to make my point. Those who aren’t myopic got it.
        Your post was trite and silly, I responded. You clearly mixed up fascism and nazism which doesn’t actually matter as I personally mix them up on occasion. Difference is I’m not trying to use it put people who like dating their own kind in league with nazis, which was your ham fisted intention.
        There are facsist on capital hill? Lmao you are intent on constantly godwining every point you make. Maybe the fact that we are human is something new to you, I’ve always knew that so maybe I just don’t get it. The blogger didn’t question any one humanity , but mentioned making your point simply a feel good statement… Trust me we k ow non blacks and even you are human.
        No I respond to stupidity with snark. There’s no need to proves what apparent with every post.
http://twitter.com/olivehoneybelle Emmanuela

Can you explain the King Kong thing? Why use that as an example?
Lakeisha Brazell

Since we seem to be in the mode of Black “extinction”…i will go ahead and say this:

The image of Black women is steadily changing (young white kids look up to Mrs. O and Kerry Washington and call them beautiful); A few prime time shows features Black women as the leading lady; internationally recognized authors are mostly Black women (Chimamanda, Zadie, Nasifa, Meaza and others)….

The flip side is this: lots of the Black Sistas following in these ladies footsteps are being primped and primed to be with non-Black men. I was concerned that this would happen.
- http://unitedblackamerica.com Asad
  
  The problem, of course is more than a one-sided view of either the beauty, or lack thereof, of our race. When standards of white beauty become the standard of our culture, then I take exception. By adopting these standards, we lower our collective self-esteem and reduce ourselves to a position of followership. This is the antithesis of what I stand for personally, and what we stand for as an organization and movement!
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I wish I had never read this, racism is alive and well in different forms.

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