Keep Your Opinions To Yourself


black couple arguing1 300x200 Keep Your Opinions To YourselfSo I was meditating on why all these prominent, well spoken, passionate men and women in the Conscious, Revolutionary, and Black communities spend so much time and emotional energy combating one another instead of building bridges with one another. After all, thats what they say they are about day after day in blog post after blog post. So what gives? Why no inter-organizational cooperation? Then as I was listening to a Blog Talk Radio show that I subscribe to, it hit me: petty differences of opinion.

Instead of fighting over, focusing on, and becoming divided over our differences in OPINION, let us take a close look at our points of AGREEMENT. Cooperation amongst our people and organizations cannot consist of “tearing each other apart” as I have one organizational leader put it.

There are many men whose shows and blogs that I follow. I dont always agree with men like NY Oil, Kala Genesis, or even Dr. Malik Zulu Shabazz. I dont agree with everything that the Nation of Islam stands for, or everything that the Universal Negro Improvement Association once stood for, but I can, have, and will work with these people and organizations to bring about measurable results.

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Many leaders, bloggers, talk show hosts, and commentators are so worried about the opinions of other men that they absolutely refuse to work with them or their organizations. Maybe these hypersensitive butt-hurt men and women should re-read the definition of an opinion: a PERSONAL belief or judgment that is not founded on proof or certainty. Now that I think about it, I have listened to Blog Talk Radio shows where the host has blocked and kicked off callers simply for disagreeing with the host’s position!

Now with that being said, when I work with my local chapter of the New Black Panther Party or Kemetic Science Institute on health fairs for instance, we dont debate one another’s opinions, we GET THINGS DONE BASED ON FACTUAL AND MEASURABLE STANDARDS.

Read this next statement carefully:

IF WE CONTINUE TO DRAW LINES BETWEEN OUR ORGANIZATIONS AND ONE ANOTHER BASED ON OPINION, THEN WE ARE HYPOCRITES AND NONE OF US ARE REALLY INTERESTED IN “COMING TOGETHER”.

See, some of these bloggers and Blog Talk Radio show hosts dont really want progress, they want a cult. They want a body of “believers” that tune in to hear some emotionally charged mental masturbation. Anybody that comes within their circumference with a difference of opinion is considered a “coward”, “agent-provocateur”, “traitor”, “blood-sucker” or they should “get lynched”. These demagogues refuse to see the good works that other men do. They dont see them up at midnight finalizing tomorrows Feed the People drive. They dont see those “cowards” on street corners dropping knowledge on those ignorant to or even hostile to revolutionary thinking. They dont see those “traitors” not seeing their kids for having to organize and lead events.

There is nothing wrong with having healthy debates. In fact, I encourage them! Go back and check out Debate, Research, and Evidence in the Conscious Movement to see what I mean. But please, for the love of the liberation of Blacks in this country, STOP INTERPRETING DIFFERENCES OF OPINIONS AS DIRECT ASSAULTS!

Anyone with any sense can see that mud-slinging over opinion gets us all nowhere.

United Black America is about actionable solutions and putting in work, not “calling out” other Black men and women. Those individuals with deep character flaws will always blow themselves up on their own. So with that being said, the solution to the ongoing cat-fight that has been going on in the Black/Conscious community is that we become unified in our intentions without being uniformed in our opinions. What do I mean? I mean;

  • I might not agree with your religious preference, but I can be down with your community food drive
  • I might not agree with your revolutionary stance, but I can salute the fact that you care enough to devote your time and energy into a blog or Youtube channel
  • I might not agree with your “Back to Africa” movement (I dont), but I can establish business relations with your organization’s import-export company
  • I might not be willing to debate with you over whether Malcolm was better than Martin (because those are opinions), but I can financially support your all-Black track team.

Heres the point of this whole post: If you are truly interested in organizing and progression, KEEP YOUR DAMN OPINIONS TO YOURSELF. Focus on moving yourself, your organization, and our people forward. Otherwise, you are just mentally masturbating. Can we agree on that? Can we be unified in our intentions without being uniformed in our opinions?

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  • CZA

    Parallels are easier to draw than 'x's but we go to the extra length more often than not because belief is a powerful thing…too powerful perhaps. We want to believe that we are grounded in our beliefs and those which we hold dear hold a higher meaning than anyone else's. We want to be THE individual, not AN individual. We'll support A collective (as long as we can buy into it, both literally and figuratively) but never THE collective. Why? There's no singularity between "brothers". If you're busy upholding the next guy's pedestal, who's going to uphold yours? That's why there's such separation in our unified conscious.

    • admin

      You know me; I have always believed in the power of the collective. It is the formula that other nations and peoples have used to conquer and control us for 600 years, and yet we refuse to unify our political, economic, and social power for our own good?!?!

      I am completely cool with everybody getting money within the collective, but then what? It cant just be about money. It SHOULD be about legacy, stability, safety, and self-determination.

      Back when I was strictly a hustler, it was only about the money. Once that was taken care of, I had to look for a more fulfilling cause (thus, the birth of this organization).

      Youre right on when you say We want to be THE individual, not AN individual, and that is both folly and a failure on our part!

  • http://afrodaddy.com Team Afro

    These sound like fightin' words – and I love it! We have too many problems as a people to tear each other down over opinion and innuendo. The big picture is that brothers and sisters need to help each other so we can all uplift. Constructive criticism should always be welcome and everyone can improve, but tearing each other down so we can lift ourselves up is not productive for anybody.

    Keep doing what you do UBA. We got your back.

    • admin

      LOL..I appreciate a visit and comment from an esteemed guest. BTW, i frequent afrodaddy.com and its one of the best in the business!

      On your comment, I think if we look back over the history of our original culture, it has always been one of us coming together to do great things. From the pyramids to the advanced trade routes and academic excellence of Mali and Timbuktu, cooperation in pursuit of greatness has always been our standard.

      I honestly think that we are still reeling from what has been called Post Traumatic Slavery Disorder (PTSD)…a cure for which you and I both are trying to find for both ourselves and our Black counterparts all over the world.

      Hope you stay tuned!

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