The Forgotten Art Of Dating – A Tutorial Of Wisdom For The Lost Generation

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Relationships…… It is so easy to get in and so hard to get out! I’ve heard the statement spoken earlier in my life on so many countless occasions by the older wiser people in my midst and didn’t have a clue as to the wisdom that was falling down oh so abundantly on my ears [...]

Victimizing the Victims: The Rape Epidemic In the Black Community

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Black people, we have a problem. It is one rarely discussed amid all our talk of Black power, revolution, and the battle of the sexes. It is a crime – a form of oppression – that is committed in secrecy that rarely goes discussed, prevented, or treated. According to reliable statistics, 1 in 4 women [...]

Why Conscious Black Men Reject Black Americanized Women

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A recent Youtube Video entitled Frustrated: Black American Men in Brazil, has raised a debate about why Black men are rejecting Black women, and going so far as leaving the country to find a suitable mate. If you havent done so, check out the documentary, then come back and read this article. Now I didnt think [...]

Good Black Men Are Hard To Find? Kiss My Ass. Signed; A Good Black Man.

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  ‘Good Black Men Are Hard To Find’ Says Who? Its easy for many to take the statistics presented in the “Where Are All The Good Single Black Men?” infographic at face value, but upon closer examination, its also easy to see where these stats fail. The map is not the terrain. First off, many [...]

On Manhood: Using Our Gifts to Benefit Ourselves

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Each of us has gifts, talents, skills, and abilities, but it is what we do with them that determine their real value.  A gift could be a new car, ring, or watch. A gift could also be the love of singing and the voice to match. A gift may be the skill of being mechanically [...]

Where Are All The Good Single Black Men?

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March is Black Manhood, Womanhood, and Relationships month here at United Black America. In response to our post entitled Black women should look outside their race for a successful man?!?!, many women argued that with so many Black men incarcerated, unemployed, and “under-educated”, how could they not look outside our race for a man? While [...]

Synergistic Energy Xchange (S.E.X.)

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This post is specifically for the single fellas. Ladies, you get your turn in the next post. I was in a cafe with a brotha the other day whose knowledge I had come to respect. He could read the medu neter and lullaby the story of Ausar. He could quote the Koran. He could cite Dr. [...]

Unequally Yoked: When Love and Faith Collide

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I left Christianity years ago, and since then I have learned the teachings of Islam without submitting to the faith. This puts me at odds with most of the women I meet because I can say with 99% certainty that the majority of Black women in America are either Christian or Muslim. Whether these women [...]

150 Best African American Websites Online!

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United Black America presents the BEST Black websites, African American websites, African websites, and black dating websites on the net. You wont find a list like this anywhere else! All links are regularly checked. These websites are all alive, malware free, and regularly updated. If you dont see your favorite site on this list, leave [...]

Post Traumatic Slavery Disorder: Are You Programmed to Self-Destruct?

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This will not be a pretty post. Herein, we discuss very serious mental issues that are the direct result of what we have come to call Post Traumatic Slavery Disorder in Black conscious circles. Post Traumatic Slavery Disorder is the sum total of the emotional and psychological impact of our abduction and separation from Africa, [...]

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